It is common for PDA adults who enjoy sexual intimacy to freeze up by the expectation in it. These are individuals who desire the sexual contact, feel safe with their partners, and are willing participants, and yet aspects around sexual intimacy can inadvertently create pressure and shut us down. Expectations can be: Celebrating romantic occasions, […]
I published a podcast recently on the topic of romance and PDA, but heard from more than one person that reading what I have to share would be much easier to access (which I understand because I feel the same). This won’t be the equivalent of a transcription, but an adaptation of my notes. The
Romance, Limerence, Trauma & PDA Read More »
Edited to remove more specific commentary on the situation in order to protect victim’s rights. This image I made is labelled for PDA families but is honestly true of ALL children. Children need caregivers to help guide and provide supports where needed. Adults on the other hand are responsible for utilizing the resources they have
A Response to the Harry Thompson/NEST controversy Read More »
I’m a 37 year old adult who’s been married, divorcing, heart broken from misread signals, heart broken from obsessing over people I didn’t really know (thanks PDA!) and I STILL struggle like crazy when I develop an attraction. It’s all or nothing. I’m rarely ever “slightly” interested in someone so when I cross a threshold